You know that in order to make up with your ex, you need to communicate personally with him/her to sort out all the problems. But sometimes, this is the hardest part of the equation. No matter how many phone calls, text messages, emails and IMs you sent, your ex does not seem to give any response. It’s frustrating to be out of touch with your ex when you are desperately want to seriously work on repairing the relationship.

So you might be wondering, are there ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that work like charms to make your ex feels almost helpless to not returning your call. I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from people just like you who are trying to put their relationship back together.

Before we get into the magic words, let’s go over what messages that are almost NEVER work. First, the plead- where the message sounds like, “Tom, please, please call me. I’m begging you. This is the 7th time I called. I have to talk to you.” And the emergency, “Amy, this is an emergency, Please call me as soon as you get this.” I’m sure you can see what’s wrong with both approaches, so I won’t waste your time…

Now for the interesting part- How to use two of the most powerful forces in the human mind i.e. curiosity and self-interest to your advantage. Here’s the BIG secret…when you combine the two, you have a formula that works magic. Here’s a message that works nearly every time: “Hi Amy. This is Tom. I want to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

Can you see how both curiosity and self-interest are perfectly integrated into this simple message? After hearing this, Amy will not stop thinking, “What did I do?”, “What does he appreciate?” She will feel good because it is a positive message and won’t be able to resist calling Tom back ASAP.

Of course you should not use this technique blindly without preparation. You need to do the “set up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing…but needs to be plausible. Be sincere in your words and your ex will respect you more.

Please have an underlying strategy before you call. If you apply this method without an underlying strategy and your ex calls you back, you can do more damage than good if you do not handle it correctly. Do you get it? All I’m saying is…what you do before, during and after you get your ex to return your call is MORE important than getting the return call itself. Make sense? So have a PLAN!

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