How many men have totally blown it with their wives and then cried, “I want my wife back!”? Did you do something totally stupid, or kept doing something stupid?

Sometimes that is exactly what men do, they dig a hole too deep to get out of and then are surprised when they lose their wives. If you are a guy who is truly serious when you say you want your wife back then it is time to start digging out of your hole.

For a man who wants his wife back there is one word to know, HUMILITY. In many instances, that is what you are going to have to do to get her back. Getting on your knees may indeed be part of the process. Your pride will have to take a back seat if you truly want to get her back. She could still be angry and frustrated and you will have to deal with that.

Honesty is the first thing you must practice, admit to whatever it is you did. Leave the excuses behind and do not try to hide it. When she launches into a diatribe about how bad things were you will have to be agreeable. There will be no room for defending your actions and you cannot lie about anything. Lying will cause even worse problems than you already have.

Finally do not try to make light of the situation by saying, “come on hon, it was not a big deal.” If it cost you your wife this is a pretty good indication that it was a very BIG deal…at least for her, and you have to understand it.

The next thing on the agenda is to not just verbalize that you will do things better. Chances are good that you have said that already and more than once. The trick this time is going to be in convincing her that you are sincere. If the problem is something you have done for a long time then you will need to simply quit doing it.

When alcohol and drugs are the name of your game you should seek out medical or supportive help. In fact, before you ever tell her you are changing you should be in the midst of some kind of counseling. If the problem is anger look for anger management classes or a psychiatrist that specializes in that field. The important thing is to acknowledge the issue she is upset about and make strides to correct it. You will get serious about these changes if you truly want your wife back.

In the end, you will find that there is a lot of hard work involved when getting your wife back is your goal. In your opinion, you may be just fine and in no need of change, however something about the way you are caused the split in the first place. Suffice it to say your way was not enough to keep the relationship strong.

Beware that your pride may balk at the idea of doing many of the tips listed above. The thing is if you want to get your wife back, you will have to swallow that pride and take a healthy dose of humility. When you want to get your wife back, you cannot let anything stand in your way…including your ego.

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